Âñå íàäåþòñÿ íà ëó÷øåå - à ïðîèñõîäèò òàê, êàê äîëæíî áûòü. À êîãäà íå ïðîèñõîäèò, êàê õîòåëîñü áû, ...

Âñå íàäåþòñÿ íà ëó÷øåå - à ïðîèñõîäèò òàê, êàê äîëæíî áûòü. À êîãäà íå ïðîèñõîäèò, êàê õîòåëîñü áû, çíà÷èò, íå äîëæíî áûëî.  ëþáîì ñëó÷àå, îò ÷åãî-òî íàäî îòêàçàòüñÿ, ÷òîáû äâèãàòüñÿ âïåðåä.
È âîò ýòî "÷òî-òî" è åñòü ñàìîå ãëàâíîå.
Everyone hopes for the best - and it happens as it should be. And when it does not happen, as we would like, then it should not have. In any case, something must be abandoned in order to move forward.
And this is "something" and is the most important thing.